Men and women, kids and law

I'm a daydreamer sometimes. I daydream about the day I will graduate. I daydream about the day I will meet my little sisters and I just hang around with them . Daydreaming.I do it to escape reality. To escape from the reality world just for a few minutes. To escape from the law. Yes,the law. It's part of my life now. My life and law. This other day a friend asked me to give advice on a domestic violence issue. I did the best I could to advise her. Since I saw domestic violence trials during my time at the magistrates court. It's sad really. The watt  men and women bash each other. It's no good for anyone. Especially to the kids. Man!! Those kids are  in a dilemma. God save their poor souls.ad then this other day I had to advise on maintenance. That one is pretty easy. Every law student understands that one. I mean we dealt with that stuff all through our attachment. Sad scenario too. Many women are having trouble raising their kids because the fathers don't want to pay maintenance. On the other hand, basing on statistics most of these women are liars!!!I'm a woman myself but I will not hesitate to speak the truth. Most of these women sleep around without protection and then want to dump a child on someone who is not even the father because he has the means to take care of that child out of that woman's long list of possible fathers. It's pathetic really. Entirely. If the statistics in the newspapers are anything to go by then one will see that 70% of the men who are accused of siring a child indeed are not the real fathers. What a shame!!! Trying to impose a child on a man who isn't the father simply because he has the means. On the other hand, it's a good thing to teach these men a lesson . Lol. Yes, a lesson that their mothers and fathers should have taught them a long time ago : self control and decency. When one sleeps with a woman they have to be ready for anything. After all they thought they were man enough to hit it right? Why not be man enough to accept responsibility. In family law they say the onus is on the man who disproves paternity to prove that indeed the child is not his. Either way  the man is going to spend money on the child whether it is his  or not. Self control indeed is needed. So to all the men out there please acquaint yourself with family law before u embark on any shenanigans. Oh and as for married men also look at succession law. It has some pretty interesting provisions like the fact that illegitimate children can also inherit. I wonder how the wife will feel about that . Chances are she won't mourn for you but will rather curse the day she met you and wish she had never married you. Your legacy will mean nothing to her but then again who will care? Certainly not the husband because he will be dead already and only God knows where he will be at.

Till next time;

xoxo

Ms Vee